So as I understand it, a few years ago, after a period of total bliss, for no reason and with no provocation, I became an angry, selfish prick who fails completely to meet your expectations of a husband. Yes. Okay. If I felt about you the way you feel about me, I'd have been gone a long time ago. Why are you still married to me? Because I believe in marriage.
The kidnapping, indefinite detention without charges or any due process, torture and murder of people wouldn't bother me that much, but having some moronic Venezuelan bint visit my workplace would be just intolerable.